A cultural exchange. A simple exchange between cultures. Some are formal and some are informal, but one thing that is certain is that they have been happening for a long time. Costa Rica Frika has been organizing them for nearly 10 years, however there are exchange programs that go back well over 50 years. When the first exchange was organized, we thought we were doing something unique. We were, to a certain extent, focusing on Costa Rica and high schools, but we’d joined an ecosystem that had to exist.
“Why tractors without violins?” This was a phrase coined by a famous Costa Rican president (the one who abolished the military). What he is saying is, what’s the point of working so hard to make advancements if we don’t take the time to enjoy life. There needs to be a balance between work and play and can’t just be all industry. That president did not coin the Costa Rica catchphrase “pura vida” (pure life), but it’s how it’s commonly described. Yes, we want to be advanced, but we’ll take our time getting there so we can enjoy life along the way.
An exchange in its simplest form is making room for the violins. Taking the time to chat with a friend, greet a neighbor etc. That’s part of the fabric of life and is why formal exchanges have prevailed for so long. Some of the longest annual exchanges have only ever been cancelled due to wars or pandemics. Ironically, instances where exchanges would be most needed to repair friendships, and get us off Netflix.
For our first exchange one of our selling points to travelers and hosts was the in person experience. You couldn’t just trust what you saw on the news or social media and make generalizations based on that. You needed it first hand. 10 years ago that was just one in a list of many benefits of participating in an exchange. Today though, I’d say that is the number one reason to participate in an exchange.
What we’re seeing is that not only is social media silo-ing us, it’s turned us off to the whole notion of needing/wanting to know more. Technology is so great that it’s really easy to isolate ourselves. I’ll be the first one to admit it. I remember a few years ago watching a video of an expedition to the North pole on my new 4k TV from my couch thinking how amazing it was that I could have this experience without having to lift a finger? They spent a month pushing a sled in extreme cold just to mark some point on the ice and I could enjoy that without any hardship.
Obviously, this is an extreme example as there is no way I would ever do this and would much rather enjoy essentially a one hour highlight reel that cuts out all the boring stuff. Tech is so good though, I’m sure this enters my life even more than I realize. Instead of going out on the weekend, I might decline to stay home and go online. While I won’t go to the North pole, what if I decline a trip because I can just watch a video about it from the comfort of my home?
This trend is seen via the exchanges. Recruiting host families has always been the biggest task of organizing a group exchange as it requires multiple families to participate. It has always been a very popular exchange, however a non-pandemic related drop in participants was experienced last year, resulting in fewer students per school. What was surprising was that it still took just as long to recruit families. That was something unexpected and worrisome. Not so much in how it might affect future exchanges, but rather the future of humanity. How much can a person truly isolate themselves and do they even realize it’s happening?
10 years ago this wasn’t even on our radar, but now it is and who knows what it will be like 10 years from now? Will we sleep 16 hours a day and only wake up to put on our VR headset to work, study and play?
Looking at the recent political activity and rhetoric in the United States only further motivates the push for travel and hosting exchanges. Conflicts, tensions, and disasters flood the internet to grab everyone’s attention and push people apart while a face-to-face exchange has none of those motives. They’re not looking for “likes”. It’s a safe place that allows people to truly be people without the noise.
We took a latino friend to the US to visit a relative in January. We went ice fishing and had a great time and it didn’t matter one bit the Trump flag flying from their flagpole. He even took a picture with it. Not only was a friendship established, but that photo and story he’ll tell his friends and family back in Costa Rica will cause them to take a step back from their newsfeed.
There’s hope for the exchanges though. The day-to-day exchanges should last as long as humans do, however participating in a formal exchange should be a necessity as oftentimes it’s the only way to break out of our “silos” and invite the violins in.
















